Why do we have to make everyone around us happy and not ourselves? People like this are labeled as too nice and as the saying goes Nice Guys finish last. Does this mean you have to be a lying manipulative little bitch to get somewhere in life? I can’t grasp the thought in this. Are we nice to people cause of The Golden Rule? Could it be Karma like the Show My Name is Earl was based around? If we do good things, Good things will happen. If we do bad things, Bad things will happen. This has been on my mind for a few weeks. I wanted to post this here. I wanted to see if anyone has an answer