Let me go ahead and shoot some of the responses from my friends.
The woman wants someone who will fight for her. Really, so being a complete ass to her means that he is gonna fight for her honor? Then it justifies it’s self when he just goes back and does the viscous circle all over again. Yes,I understand that jealously can rear it’s ugly head. I think most men, just fly off the handle. Plain and simple. If a guy compliments your girlfriend or wife, and you threaten to kick his ass, you have some damn issues. In all honesty, not only is she getting compliments but your getting the compliment too.
They want someone who will protect her. A nice guy can’t do that? That thought is completely asinine. I don’t see how being with a guy who treats you like crap is gonna protect you. Wait a sec, is it worth all the abuse, mentally and sometimes physically for that one split second a storm comes. Jack asses have the same fears just like a nice guy does.
They want a real man!!! Hold the phone, slap me on the ass and call me Bubba Gump. Is the definition of a real man, a guy who will hurt you and make you feel low, wanna fuck, and bullies you into doing what they want you to do and threatened every sort of thing in the Big Book of Stuff Guys Shouldn’t Do. I guess nice guys, who worship the grown their girlfriends and wives walk on, aren’t good enough. Nice guys like to fuck and most of the time, there is this thing called emotion involved. That is a new term the kids have started using.
I am definitely not saying that these situations can’t go the other way either. There are some jack ass woman out there too. I guess it baffles me that if you are nice, you can show everything they want but never be what they want.
I am a nice guy. Well, at least that is what the man in the mirror would say. I have seen friends with some the biggest jerk offs this side of the Mississippi and all I can think is why. I have been put in friend zone 99% of my life cause I am a friend first. So when a woman or man is saying they are looking for their best friend are they actually giving us the whole truth?
One day soon maybe someone with a big heart, can get what they want. Maybe, I am crazy for putting this up but I needed to vent somewhere.
I would love any feedback on this question.