The-More-You-KnowOkay, as a female, I can be a bitch; I’ll be honest.  However, I have never tried to fuck up an ex’s new relationship.  When it’s over, it’s over.  Let.  It.  Go.  Why can’t more women be like this?  I don’t want to be where I’m not wanted.  Why would you?  And the fucking suicide bull shit?  Seriously?!  Get a fucking life!  Not only did Cage’s ex pull this shit last night and cause nine kinds of problems, my ex boyfriend’s ex did it to him while we were together too.  Guys always fall for it.  “Well, I should do something.”  No.  By responding, you are doing exactly what they want.  You are giving them the attention they want and do not deserve.  When my ex’s ex said she wanted to know what drinking a cup of bleach would do, I told him to tell her to try it and find out.  It’s all bullshit.  They won’t do anything but, hey, if they can keep you from having a nice night, by golly they will.  Being drunk is not an excuse either.  I’ve been drunk and recently.  I was home alone and did nothing.  I didn’t speak to my ex, I didn’t text my ex, and I didn’t threaten suicide.  So, yeah, it can happen.

I was married for 10 years.  My mom will now tell you that divorce has made me into a terrible person.  I guess this is true.  I have said plenty of things I wouldn’t have said before, my life fell apart.  I have my ex husband threatening custody on a daily basis.  I have a job.  I recently have been dealing with kidney stones every few weeks or so.  Cage is the bright spot in the mess of my life.  With my kids gone for 3 weeks at a time (and the ex refuses to let me see them) and the pain, I need something good in my life.  Cage is the man of my dreams.  I’ve honestly never loved a man like I love him.  It’s not like I have to have a man to be happy, but I want him.  He’s great to me and my kids.  I couldn’t ask for a better guy.  It’s his ex I can’t stand and who won’t let us be.  They have no kids together and she walked out on him.  She sees he’s happy and now she wants him back.  My track record isn’t good in this area, so my morning has been filled with tears.

When it comes down to the bottom line, you can’t make someone love you.  You can’t be someone you aren’t.  Find someone that loves you for you and go with that.  Just pray their ex can butt the fuck out.  I won’t be someone I’m not.  You can take me as I am or not at all.  Guess that’s why my track record is bad… Oh well!

Wishing you guys a better day than mine…